When we struggle against something, we create more of it.  When we make a big deal out of something, it becomes a big deal in our lives.

Often we make a big deal out of what other people think of us.

People are going to think what they think.  We can only control ourselves.  Everyone comes from a background of experiences and beliefs.  When someone thinks poorly of you, or of something you have done, their judgment is coming from their personal experiences.  And it really is their deal, their issues.  It usually has nothing to do with us at all.

Let it go.  Let other people’s expectations and judgments of you fall away.  Take a deep breath and stop making it a big deal.  How you feel, what you believe is the real big deal.  You can stop listening to others now.