There are many, many ways to handle a situation in which someone has done something that you do not like. Going directly to that person and expressing your concerns is one way. Deciding not to have anything to do with that person again is another way.
However, when we act badly also, that just makes us look and feel bad. When we call someone out – it just perpetuates the negativity. It makes a bad situation even worse.
But when we handle things in a mature way, we can feel good in the end.