When we are not seeing what we want to see – after we have figured out what it is that we want, dreamed about it – created it in our minds – and asked for it – we can ask ourselves if we are really ready for it.
What exactly would it mean if you had what you wanted? What would have to change? What would you have to give up?
Many times we only think about what we will gain. But every time something changes, something has to go. It may not be obvious at first, but when we add something, something else must go.
When we think our dreams through and make sure it is really what we want – and that we are willing to give up whatever we need for it – we can see them come true.